tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post7209645010498559778..comments2023-10-31T09:58:31.387-05:00Comments on The Princess Diaries: On Being a Dirty WhorePrincess of the Universehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15795441683354185317noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-11990550595725046752008-07-15T10:31:00.000-05:002008-07-15T10:31:00.000-05:00I think we should talk about this.I think we should talk about this.Friendly Manitobanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15850252029340092124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-90116277052358925762008-07-14T03:00:00.000-05:002008-07-14T03:00:00.000-05:00I can't say anything that hasn't already been said...I can't say anything that hasn't already been said - you are obviously NOT a dirty whore. I can't slam the guys either though - poor judgement and little thought (or much thought and then disregard)for your feelings, and perhaps a touch of spinelessness and stupidity, is their fault - but I don't think they have gone out of their way to hurt you. I don't think they're bad guys (from what I have heard), just incredibly lame. <BR/><BR/>You are obviously a firecracker for them to feel this threatened by you!! :-) xxxMrsGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12850209738701778780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-21332612454716478542008-07-13T11:09:00.000-05:002008-07-13T11:09:00.000-05:00I think that it is easier for the men like this to...I think that it is easier for the men like this to blame the woman rather than look at their own actions. Also? I flirt with plenty of married men and plenty of men flirt with my married ass. Never ONCE have any of us said we need to stop talking because our INTENTIONS are not impure...we're just having fun.<BR/><BR/>Obviously, I think these guys you mentioned did not always have the most pure intentions! Hrmph!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-35716264380622999982008-07-13T11:01:00.000-05:002008-07-13T11:01:00.000-05:00Puss- I think that men in generally just aren't ab...Puss- I think that men in generally just aren't able to think on a bigger global scale when it comes to this sort of thing. They need to ask themselves: will this cause damage to anyone? Should I be doing this etc. Hindsight can only get you so far...<BR/><BR/>*No offense to my male readers!!*<BR/><BR/>Jen- I guess they are just more comfortable if the "temptation" is removed all together. Sad really. You could just...I don't know...stop flirting? Behave yourself?<BR/><BR/>My Dear Anon- thanks honey! And you're allowed to flirt with me all you want!Princess of the Universehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15795441683354185317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-84175559683458278292008-07-13T10:40:00.000-05:002008-07-13T10:40:00.000-05:00no matter what I will never delete you hahahaNickno matter what I will never delete you hahaha<BR/>NickAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-92113282345481758122008-07-13T09:57:00.000-05:002008-07-13T09:57:00.000-05:00It's easier to blame you than it is to blame their...It's easier to blame you than it is to blame their marriage, their husband, their wives or even themselves. <BR/><BR/>You're a good person Princess. You don't need to worry about people like this - as hurtful as it is, you keep being the good & beautiful that you are.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03584503437503775081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-82245865028027198252008-07-13T06:27:00.000-05:002008-07-13T06:27:00.000-05:00Firstly, no one can make you feel anything you cho...Firstly, no one can make you feel anything you choose not to feel. So don't let them put that role and those feelings on you. Secondly, men are idiots - married ones especially - they have clearly crossed the line and they need to carry the can for that. <BR/><BR/>Friends who behave like that are not friends; it's no loss.<BR/><BR/>PussGlamourpusshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01450175254756849062noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-69729369416234133512008-07-12T15:46:00.000-05:002008-07-12T15:46:00.000-05:00Last Guy- I understand, I really do. I am just sor...Last Guy- I understand, I really do. I am just sorry that this has happened to me yet again. I'm not angry with either you, your wife, or even necessarily the other men I've mentioned. I just find the whole thing rather frustrating.<BR/><BR/>Gina- thanks for stopping by! Like I mentioned before, I am willing to consider the fact that I'm taking this WAY too much to heart! :)<BR/><BR/>Mr G- ahh you men- you need to toughen up! :PPrincess of the Universehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15795441683354185317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-91221279768088311722008-07-12T15:10:00.000-05:002008-07-12T15:10:00.000-05:00You didn't do anything wrong. For a lot of guys i...You didn't do anything wrong. For a lot of guys it's easy to forget on the faceless Internet that our actions can have an impact on our real lives. Sometimes when the realization comes, it's so overwhelming that retreat appears to be the only option.ghartsteinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12181957461644446687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-20184280951205987862008-07-12T12:55:00.000-05:002008-07-12T12:55:00.000-05:00I entirely understand. If the guys would just be ...I entirely understand. If the guys would just be honest and authentic then there would not be these issues. If the women of their lives would be honest with <I>themselves</I> themselves then they'd see it was a problem with their husbands or boyfriends and <I>not</I> us! I hate how men make us feel and how their women sometimes too can make us feel.<BR/><BR/>(((hugs)))<BR/><BR/>(Now a regular reader of your blog!)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-80160561747507522572008-07-12T12:50:00.000-05:002008-07-12T12:50:00.000-05:00It's me - the latest guy in your post... some cla...It's me - the latest guy in your post... some clarification is in order perhaps... FIrst of all, you should NOT feel like a home-wrecker, or even feel dirty... It's not like that all. Second, you were never a secret relationship... My wife knew about our friendship all along and did in fact like you, and third, yes - it was me that went too far, and I realize that. Deleting you was also not easy. Our friendship did and does mean a lot... it's just that I'm guarding myself from going to far. Even if you had no intention of responding to my flirtations, well that's good - but who's to say that I might not have pursued it further? You were in no way at fault in any of this. The reason this happened was because I fail to control how close I let myself get to other girls... especially when they are interesting, smart, funny, and attractive.... And it's not like my wife won't LET me have female friends... this has nothing to do with her... it's me making the decisions to honour my own wife... I hope this makes some sense...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-33868542084867766162008-07-12T11:53:00.000-05:002008-07-12T11:53:00.000-05:00PsychG - I actually don't have issue with the wive...PsychG - I actually don't have issue with the wives. This latest wife knows me, and has never really liked me. I always wished she would, but I could completely understand why she didn't.Princess of the Universehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15795441683354185317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-16064234881381285352008-07-12T11:01:00.000-05:002008-07-12T11:01:00.000-05:00The fact that the guys treated you like a secret m...The fact that the guys treated you like a secret made the relationship inappropriate - not your actions. I wouldn't blame the wives, I'd blame the husbands who seemed like they weren't able to have a platonic female friendship without entering into territory that they knew wouldn't go over well with their girlfriends/wives.<BR/><BR/>I know it's difficult to not personalize it, but I really don't think this is a negative reflection of you.PGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02160883537054763513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-85836848963006269032008-07-12T10:22:00.000-05:002008-07-12T10:22:00.000-05:00Shana- the thing is, I don't necessarily think the...Shana- the thing is, I don't necessarily think these guys are bad- I'm quite fond of all of them. I'm just hurt that I can either be deleted, or treated like a secret.<BR/><BR/>Phish- Maybe I'm being TOO sensitive?<BR/><BR/>Paula- I think EVERYone (including me maybe) is doing too much thinking about a non-issue.<BR/><BR/>Britt- I don't know if I'm just taking this too personally, or if I have a right to be angry or not...Princess of the Universehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15795441683354185317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-37256268620431038972008-07-12T09:09:00.000-05:002008-07-12T09:09:00.000-05:00Oh I hate this so bad. I have no less than 3 draf...Oh I hate this so bad. I have no less than 3 drafts saved on this very thing.<BR/><BR/>In my experience, it's not the men that turn it into something "dirty" or "wrong". It's the wife/girlfriend/whatever that cannot for the life of them understand how someone can be friends with the opposite sex and not want to sleep with them.<BR/><BR/>Hate this. HAAAAAAAAAAAATE.Miss Britthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12934134485175970612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-2185896135904921982008-07-12T05:20:00.000-05:002008-07-12T05:20:00.000-05:00I hate this about guys - they always read too much...I hate this about guys - they always read too much into things. (A sweeping generalisation, I know, but so many similar things have happened to me, that I have to assume it's some sort of common trend). You are just trying to be friendly or whatever, and then they take it to a different level . . .one you weren't even aware was in existence until they break off the friendship. Then you're left feeling like you are the one who did something wrong, when nothing could be further from the truth.Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04425977546505490830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-53002933684440038352008-07-12T03:28:00.000-05:002008-07-12T03:28:00.000-05:00You feel like a whore because the wives and girlfr...You feel like a whore because the wives and girlfriends feel that you are one of those 'other women'.<BR/><BR/>Which you clearly aren't. The fact that it gets to you speaks volumes of your sensitive nature.phishezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03328265950758191175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-842813601973874118.post-90539294272380173522008-07-11T23:25:00.000-05:002008-07-11T23:25:00.000-05:00That's not how friends should treat one another. ...That's not how friends should treat one another. Not at all. Either these boys have emotional problems of their own, or their wives/girlfriends, seem to have problems of their own. <BR/>I sometimes wish people would take a look at how their actions impact others, and maybe think twice. <BR/>It's truly not you, and not your fault in anyway shape or form.Tryphynahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06340213909324182004noreply@blogger.com